• 【J】【u】【s】【t】【Z】@lemmy.world
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    6 months ago

    Similar for me. I got let go from a good job right before the pandemic. Got some unemployment, then it kept getting extended because of the pandemic.

    Got to spend everyday with my boy, and used the time to start my own business and things have never been better. It starts ripping by fast, though.

    I always think, there was a time when my dad lifted me up and neither of us knew it was for the last time.

    Sometimes I don’t want to do kid stuff, don’t have the energy or whatever. I try to picture myself 80 years old, gone back in time for one day with my young family, always give me the energy to keep it up.

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      6 months ago

      Yeah that’s exactly it. Sometimes I don’t want to do family stuff. My wife plans things like going to the beach which I really don’t like but I keep thinking about the memories both me and my son will get. My dad hardly did anything with me, I want to make sure I’m giving my son good memories.