• shalafi@lemmy.world
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    60, 60, 62

    If you’re lucky enough to have all your original hair and teeth at 60, and don’t let yourself go to shit, this is easily doable. Here’s me (53) at a costume party last weekend.

    Lemmy: “No one can do this without money!!!”

    Uh, no. A little luck and a lot of self-care is more like it.

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      You look how I expect 53 to look, well maintained not young. People are aging more slowly for sure. I look at pictures of my mom at my age and we don’t look the same age.

      But if you don’t have money (for gym or weights, Retin-A, good sunscreen, a job that doesn’t stress the fuck out of you) it really is more difficult. Stress is so aging, rich or not, but less stress is easier with money.

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      You’re doing great. Keep up the good work, but 53 is not 60, or 62. There is definitely a magnitude difference there.

      I do my fair share of swiping right and left. I am and enjoy the older crowd, so my filters reflect that. The difference is usually easily observable

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        I agree, 45-55 looks similar but somehow 55-65 usually doesn’t. It’s a change like adolescence.

        I do think Martha Stewart has the right approach to cosmetic work, what she does is what I’d do if my purse was bottomless, and I had to be in the public eye.

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      Here’s me (53) at a costume party last weekend.

      You were not bad in Lost and Succession but you really should be ashamed of yourself for the Short Circuit movies.

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      Dude wear suits always, that shouldn’t be a costume lol them sumbitches work for you. Man I should get into suits myself tbh, I’m getting gray and I think it’s about time lol.