Would you like me to amend it to “No in this immediate conversation is comparing the two”? I figured you got that considering you said

Maybe not here

I can only speak for myself. If you’re trying to lay the entirety of the Internet’s behavior on a specific person or group of people then that’s a pretty shitty personal take that you can take personal responsibility for.

Specifically, no one is comparing them except you. It’s okay for two groups of people to have shitty experiences at once. It’s not a competition or a fight, I don’t understand why people keep trying to insist on making it a “one vs the other” thing.

Oh, they’re both clickable in my client, that’s very good to know moving forward, thank you, it’s much appreciated!

Is there a difference between /c/reprieve@lemmy.zip and !reprieve@lemmy.zip?

I didn’t claim misogyny didn’t exist, I explicitly confirmed it does. I didn’t say misandry was worse than misogyny, I said it wasn’t a competition between the two. Just because YOU don’t recognize it doesn’t mean that OTHER people don’t feel it’s effects. For you to come in and claim to tell other people that their experiences are invalid because you personally don’t believe in them is the height of narcissism

I know I’d rather wait a month than spend $40+ extra for the privilege of being an unpaid beta tester

When new games are approaching $100 and you know you can wait a month or two for it to drop $40 it’s an easy decision

Misandry exists and it’s a valid concern for a lot of men. To write it off and pretend it doesn’t is to feed more people into Peterson’s cult. That’s not to say that misogyny doesn’t exist either, not that it’s not as much of a problem. It’s not a competition on how much life sucks for a particular group of people. We’re all just trying to get through life however we can and everyone needs their own space. And so far 99% of men’s spaces are this sexist alpha male pigheaded bullshit. And everyone is so afraid of making another type because they’ll be labeled as more of the same. This is for just normal ass people who just need someone to talk to who understands what they’re going through. None of the Peterson bullshit. None of the misogyny. Just guys helping guys. And it’s telling that my first post saying “Peterson sucks” is very upvoted but my post saying “Peterson sucks, here’s an alternative for men that’s not sucky” is not

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!Reprieve@lemmy.zip is here for male-identifying persons to get away from this kind of hate and find a better place to connect with their fellows where just regular normal people can talk about shit without judgement and without the specter of dumbass made up sexist shit like Peterson spouts hanging over them.

Disappointed but not surprised to see the downvotes, apparently there are Peterson fans here.

Dude is corrupting impressionable young men the world over and there should be some charge for flooding these poor people with hate. Should not be able to just do this and be fine and dandy in his secure house where he wouldn’t come within spitting distance of any of his cult.

!Reprieve@lemmy.zip exists for people who would like an alternative to Peterson’s sexist bullshit.

This is the absolute worst time to be vindicated in your “radical end of the world” predictions. I hope everyone who said people were “just overreacting” are welcoming the leopards into their homes with smiling faces.

Thank you so much, I can pop over to the website for stuff like that. Hoping they update with more mod tools though because this is my main Lemmy interface

My only moderator options appear to be ban user and report. Not sure where else I’d look for it

People have a right to exist and society has a responsibility to care for those who cannot work. The whole point of society is to ensure the health and well being of their members as a WHOLE. If a society cannot or will not care for their elderly or infirm then that is a failed society.

RIP home server, you will be missed

Same. It’s less scary and more unnerving but it’s a great series

When I was a kid we once had a snow storm so bad it took out the entire (small) town’s power. People huddled up in the mayor’s house because he had a working genny. When the adults had to go out they had to wear goggles or your eyes would start freezing in your skull. Yaaaa Minnesota

I’d take single digit temperatures over 80+ even, let alone 100+, that’s insane, I’m northern born so I start melting around 80, I would die at 100. Hell I’d take double digit negative temperatures only over triple digits