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  • Pandantic [they/them]
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    64 months ago

    I got into an age gap relationship at the end of my 20s, and we’ve been together almost 10 years now. As others said, make sure you’re no longer his student before you broach the subject as there may be rules about it. If you’re looking for a sexual only relationship, go for it. 50yo men are many times better in bed than 20-something’s because they’ve had more experience.

    If you’re looking for something more, there’s a lot of things to consider so take it slow and make sure that you are both in agreement about the direction of your relationship and your potential life together. Don’t assume he’s right because he’s older, don’t compromise your life goals and desires for him (like wanting/not wanting kids), and be prepared for your family, friends, co-workers, and strangers to judge you for the age gap. It’s doable but, as others said, the two of you are not at the same stage of life so you really have to make sure your goals align.

    Best of luck!

    • @Colorfulhipp@lemmy.worldOP
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      4 months ago

      Lucky you! And…

      50yo men are many times better in bed than 20-something’s because they’ve had more experience.

      🤘🔥