Why some men bully and hate on women who post here their own images? Specifically women who have a link in their bio.
As somebody who is not enjoying watching nor listening to ads, I understand that part, but we still get to see those beautiful/sexy photos/videos for free.
And even those women who post without any aggressive promotion, variety of content (not recycling the same photo in different sub-communities), not providing any links directly in their posts nor asking for anything and just enjoying being social, get attacked too. Why?
What has happened to live and let live? Why being so rude and disrespectful? I truly don’t get it.
I mean I have a theory, but I would hate to offend anyone, it’s just not in me to be disrespectful, so I keep it to myself for now.
That said, I also would like to acknowledge that vast majority of Lemmy NSWF members are awesome and many thanks to you all for building this fun community.
It’s unfortunate that shitty people exist.
What is the best way the rest of us can encourage you to keep doing what you’re doing?
It’s awesome that you’re providing a service to us for free out of the goodness of your heart. Let us know if there’s anything we can do besides upvotes to restore the motivation that gets sucked away by people’s disrespectful comments.
Thank you.
I sense a hint of sarcasm here, but I also may be wrong.
In any case the encouragement is welcomed, but not needed. Many thanks for offering 🥰
I’m an emotionally mature alas wild woman, who feels comfortable in my own skin and with everything I do. Don’t need sweet talking to keep me going, nor bad mouthing to stop me. I may be soft and friendly and full of positive energy, but I also have a tough skin and I’m not that fragile.
The purpose of this post was the get an answer to my question, not to vent nor look for support. Most people here are awesome and I appreciate all respones. I just don’t understand those few bad seeds. This is not my personal experience but what I have noticed in general ever since I joined this community.
Thank you for taking time to reply and I hope it was in a good faith too. Wishing you a great day.
It’s unfortunate that downvotes cannot be replied to so we can ask people what they are thinking.
Looking at downvotes overall, I don’t think they should be anonymous AND shown. If you want to show the voting total, that’s different.
But giving that one little asshole the power to change the “⬇️ 0” into “⬇️ 1” is too much power.
They should be able to change “⬆️600” into “⬆️599” if they want, and that’s a far more reasonable amount of power for one little asshole to have.