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The original was posted on /r/sex by /u/Own_Tumbleweed_1393 on 2023-09-13 03:47:11.
My girlfriend and I (both 18) have been dating for a few months but we haven’t had sex yet. A few days ago we were making out and fooling around like normal but then she got on top of me and start dry humping me. It felt amazing and she’s so hot that I ended up cumming in my pants. I felt so embarrassed that I ended up lying to her about it.
Now I’m worried that when it comes time for us to have sex I won’t be able to last very long. I don’t want it to be a disappointing experience for her but I am kind of clueless. If you have any advice I’d really appreciate it.
ETA: I’m a virgin but she isn’t. She said her last bf was very selfish in bed. I don’t want to be that way.
Do yoga, mainly breathing exercises so you can focus on your breathing.
Don’t project the sex in your mind when you are at the edge… good way to avoid this is to divert focus on breathing and not get too excited by the realization that sex is happening.
Key idea: If you tense up and don’t slow down, you won’t last long.