Something I’ve always wondered is what kind of women were in the lives of incel men when they were young. Did they have a bad relationship with their mother? Did they lack sisters or other female family members? Or is their family situation irrelevant? Maybe some particular situation in their early years caused them to develop a complex around women?

  • @bouh@lemmy.world
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    No. I am absolutely not saying that.

    I am saying that the usual way men and women get together is an old patriarcal way. And thus, when a man look into how to get into a relationship, he is dragged into this shit hole.

    Hence, society needs to change the way men and women date and seduce eachother so that this way is healthier, more feminist.

    Somehow the only answer people have is “get used to being alone” or “stop being a shitty person”. That’s a short sighted and stupid answer to the problem.

    Can you understand that? Or do you must always fall back on the irrelevant privileges stuff?

    It is not a superficial problem. It is the root of how men and women interact together. Turning a blind eye on it only serves the fascists you named.

    • Sorry but you’re just rewriting the same problem of these boys lacking companionship and femism is to blame for it. Sorry but it’s just a lack of understanding on your part.

      The loss of privilege is exactly what is causing the perceived problem of a lack of companionship/love. It’s again, the main foundation of any critique. I’m totally not aware of anybody except people in the manosphere itself who critique the problem like you do.

      You’re absolutely incorrect.

        • @nicetomeetyouIMVEGAN@lemmings.world
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          You’re the one who says that inceldom can be cured by dating them in a ‘feminist’ way.

          Hence, society needs to change the way men and women date and seduce eachother so that this way is healthier, more feminist.

          Get right out of here with claiming I’m the troll. I just want everybody who reads this to understand that your ‘analysis’ is incorrect and is literally just the incel solution.