• @WaxedWookie@lemmy.world
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    184 months ago

    If they were black, it would similarly be a black love story - but what do you think choosing to describe it as a black love story indicates?

    There’s a million different lenses to look through when describing a story or a relationship - the aspects we choose to point to (particularly unprompted, as was the case for the trolls) tend to indicate more about us than the story - particularly when they have no meaningful bearing on the story.

    • @Maalus@lemmy.world
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      124 months ago

      It indicates that it is a love story between two black people. You drawing attention to it as if saying “black” is some forbidden, taboo word / description is the problem.

      • @WaxedWookie@lemmy.world
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        24 months ago

        Saying they’re black or gay when it has no bearing on the story doesn’t tell anyone much. You didn’t choose to say they were loving, outdoorsy, not super-physical, middle-aged, wealthy, blonde, family-oriented… Noone is coming out to crucify me here - talking about race isn’t taboo - but the non-relevant aspects of the relationship you choose to highlight for reasons tells plenty about you.