Okay, jan.

Projection When someone is accusing you of doing something that they’re doing, they are engaging in the psychological defense mechanism of projection. This is the attribution of things to others that are actually attributable to oneself, and is a way of avoiding taking ownership for one’s actions1. Blamers frequently accuse their partner of intentions and actions that do not belong to their partner, and often belong to themselves2. When a person is blamed from a young age, they may develop the idea that they are "bad"2.

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