So, I’ve been self-hosting for decades, but on physical hardware. I’ve had things like MythTV and an asterisk voip system, but those have been abandoned for years. I’ve got a web server, but it’s serving static content that’s only viewed by bots and attackers.
My mail server, that’s been active for more than two decades is still in active use.
All of this makes me weird in the self-hosted community.
About a month ago, I put in a beefy system for virtualization with the intent to start branching out the self hosting. I primarily considered Proxmox and xcp-ng. I went with xcp-ng, primarily because it seems to have more enterprise features. I’m early enough in my exploration that switching isn’t a problem.
For those of you more advanced in a home-lab hypervisor, what did you go with and why? Right now, I’m pretty agnostic. I’m comfortable with xcp-ng but have no problems switching. I’m particularly interested in opinions that have a particularly negative view of one or the other, so long as you explain why.
I’ve personally used Proxmox in the past because it’s easy to use, and it served pretty well for what I wanted to do (simple services like Headscale, Bitwarden, etc).
But I’m kind of a noob so you should probably ask more people.
It looks like !selfhosted@lemmy.world is more active and has become the “replacement” for r/selfhosted.
If you post there you’ll probably get more helpful answers.