I’m glad you’re finding at least some happiness in the worst place possible. I’ve been to Florida many times (not anymore after the travel advisory), it’s definitely…a place (there are some beautiful parts, don’t get me wrong). I’m from a neighboring state and can definitely relate. I’m about to move and leave behind my extended family too. I’m sure it’ll be painful to some degree, but you’ve gotta have some pain to grow.

I recommend visiting some of the potential places if you can afford it financially before making a decision. New England, Minnesota, and the West Coast are the best options trans-wise. Also helps if you know somebody who lives there before you move.