My father just died in his sleep. He had passed by the time the paramedics arrived.

They still did their best, which I am very grateful for, but they even an entire trash bag full of used instruments that were stuffed under the bed for some reason

I’m glad that I found it sooner over later but it’s mildly infuriating that they just discarded their medical waste under his bed.

(NSFW some blood)

I’ve been taking care of him for over 5 years and it’s made things a lot harder for me, seeing all of that all over.

  • popemichael@lemmy.sdf.orgOP
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    1 year ago

    Thank you very much. I really appreciate your kind words.

    In this world, I only had my dad and grandmother. I took care of them both for years. My grandmother passed in February, and dad’s mind just imploded. She was more “smother” over a mother, so he was in the process to learn how to adult despite having severe paranoid schizophrenia

    He was doing so well too, I taught him how to buy clothing and how to use uber.

    He was for sure happy when he passed as I kept him reassured that he was safe and “the government doesn’t know where you are”