• CheesyCheese1 [She/her]@lemmy.caOP
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    I never understood how people get so stuck in-denial, I mean ask yourself, is there really something so wrong with being a girl. Really what is so bad abut that to you that you’ll intentionally and repeatedly deny who you are to yourself? I wish you luck sis and I hope you can come out to yourself and be happy one day.

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        This person is clearly in-denial, I’m not saying they should or shouldn’t be anything, it’s just obvious they aren’t entirely cis if you catch my drift.

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            Don’t compare cracking someone’s egg to conversion therapy, they are not the same, cracking people’s eggs saves lives, it frees them from denial and allows them to be happy as their authentic self. Conversion therapy tries to force people deeper into denial. This is such a rotten and transphobic argument.

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              You are not the arbiter of who is or is not trans. You are free to help someone come to the realization that they may be trans, but do not invalidate their identity in the process.

              Gender expression is a spectrum, and just because someone isn’t 100% gender conforming doesn’t automatically make them trans.

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                It is not invalidating their identity it is helping discover who they really are, helping them come out of the egg and break the denial that prevents them from being their most legitimate selves.

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                  It is not invalidating their identity it is helping discover who they really are

                  Literally indistinguishable from transphobe rhetoric.

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              right its so much different when its your opinion you are attempting to bend people to instead of one you disagree with

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                Conversion therapy is transphobia, transphobia isn’t an opinion, calling transphobia an opinion is like calling arsenic a flavor. I’m not trying to bend anyone to anything, I’m just pointing out that they’re dressing like a girl, and acting like a girl, put two and two together and you can see where that’s going. Is this really that hard for people to understand?

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                  “You are what I say you are, not what you say you are” - thats what you’re going with, surprising take.

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              Not everyone is trans, homesicle. If I take a long hard look at my gender and decide that I’m happier as the man I was born than as a woman, that’s my business. Trying to force me into a female body would make me just as miserable as your male one was for you.

              Also I couldn’t help but notice that you seem to conflate anger as a concept with masculinity.

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          In another comment you clearly stated that femboys are not the same thing as trans.

          And now you want to push the transfem label onto a non-afab person just because they admit to wear gender-non-conforming clothes?

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            No I said we aren’t femboys, we are women. If someone claims to be a boy and dresses fem it’s clear they aren’t entirely cis, if they were such act would give them unbelievable gender dysphoria and discomfort.

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              You just singlehandedly invalidated the gender identity of every cis drag queen. That’s impressive.

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              This is a meme about trans women, please don’t conflate us with femboys.

              Sounds for me like:

              “femboys exist, but we are not the same”; not “femboys do not exist. They’re just in denial”

              (and I do agree with the first; not with the second)

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          You keep trying to push a narrative, but it just isn’t working.

          Nobody is falling for your crap.

          I’d ask you to go back to Reddit, but Lemmy has this neat feature to block trolls.

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      Sure, you can jump gender if you feel like it, but you’re replying to a person who transcended those silly boundaries without immediately constraining themselves to a different one. I suspect they are next level happy.

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        They are constraining themselves to a gender though, they’re stuck in the idea that they have to be a man because they were born male. That’s not true though, people can be a woman regardless of what they were born as. They say they’re happy now but they would be so much happier if they stopped limiting themselves and realized they can live comfortably as a woman.

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          I don’t know why am I trying to get to you, but you’re figuratively convincing an ambidextrous person to force themselves being a leftie.

          Being stuck in the wrong box must be awful, but not everyone likes being constrained to boxes.