• i_love_FFT@lemmy.ml
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    6 months ago

    So you mean it might be possible to remove the wedding ring without leaving a mark, making it easier to hide that you’re married?

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      6 months ago

      What I wanted to convey is, if the mesh is fine enough, the pattern can get marked on the skin, leaving an elegant but discreet - shall we call it - love brand behind.

      If you’re going to cheat, at least be bold enough about it and keep the wedding band on.

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        6 months ago

        Hehe, yeah I intentionally misunderstood your comment to make a joke…

        With my so, we actually talked about getting a ring tattoo instead of an actual ring because of how we both never wear jewellery.

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          6 months ago

          Some good humored banter never hurt anybody.

          That is the sole thing I draw the line. Scynical as it may sound, ink on skin, no. It feels as an ownership brand that can never be taken off or thrown away.

          I personally dislike the notion of being permanent on another life. Either because things don’t work, people grow apart or someone simply dies, from misfortune, sickness or old age, nobody should be tied to another, in any way. Life should go on. Must.

          And I’m happily and for a long time monogamous.