• lolcatnip@reddthat.com
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    6 months ago

    They’re talking about wanting children. Disagreeing on that is absolutely an unsolvable problem.

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      6 months ago

      It certainly is if you don’t talk about it. There may be various middle grounds here but you won’t find them if you just get divorced.

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        6 months ago

        Buddy, let me explain something to you. I do not want children. Ever. If I were married to someone who decided they wanted children, I would for sure get a divorce, because there is no compromise to be made. Having a child is all or nothing. You can’t halfway become a parent.

        Of course, anyone I might marry would understand why a divorce is necessary and wouldn’t fight me on it.