That’s really the problem : they have a clear lack of empathy. I would feel sad for them if they didn’t use that lack of empathy to hurt others
Lack of empathy is the result of many issues in the world. And add to that their internal view of: ofc their abortion is justified, they are not like those people…they are also unwilling to realise they themselves are part of the people they hate in (getting abortions themselves) because they have spent so much time othering and dehumanising women who get abortions that they can not mentally accept that they are just like them.
So many pro lifers that I know make up their own ridiculous reasons that people get abortions like getting repeated abortions as a form of birth control or to stick it to conservatives/God. They never realize that other people might have real and relevant reasons and they don’t care enough to even consider it.