• Grail (Capitalised)@lemmy.worldOP
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    10 hours ago

    I use capitalised pronouns because I like them. That’s what the article explains. The reasons that people like their preferred pronouns don’t tend to go any deeper than that.

    Maybe a story will feel more complete: 4 years ago, while My goddess-mother was helping Me understand My gender, She suggested I try out capitalised pronouns. I did, and I liked them. As good as she/her felt compared to using he/him, that’s how They/Them felt compared to she/her. I liked them, so I kept them.

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      8 hours ago

      We aren’t talking about They/Them vs she/her.
      This is about They/Them vs they/them.

      I can see there might be an argument for people to capitalize all pronouns.
      Doing it only for 1st and 2nd person pronouns might be my preference. I can see it accentuating a dialog happening between the reader and writer.
      But asking everyone to break a grammatical convention, specifically only for you; Giving no justification other than “I like it”, seems insufficient.

      If I were to tell you to use all caps when referring to ME, would that be reasonable?
      What about all lower case, even when starting a sentence?

      No. If you want everyone to change a standard grammatical convention specifically for you alone; One that’s been in place since the invention of the printing press (that’s when we started to capitalize “I”); You need to give more reason than you would for your favorite color.

      Of course you and I both, can capitalize any word, however WE Want, for our Own empahAses.