Luckily my model of other people’s model of me has lost enough genuine character that it’s more of a trope so my model of someone else’s model of me has like 3 models that apply to everyone and that’s so reductive I ignore them.

Oh, stay away from semioticians, then.

Semiosis diagrams are like trypophobia bait memes but specifically for information scientists.

Basically, the big circle is what you think of them, and the small circle is what you believe they think of you.

I vaguely remember from grad school that “copresence heuristics” were a workable solution, but I don’t remember the details.