Usually it’s not part of the date conversation for me because it doesn’t matter if you date an average heigth guy. if a guy is really fucking tall and I’m genuinely interested about how tall he is I have asked, nobody ever minded. I think this whole height fetish is a little bit out if control because of dating apps maybe. Because I’ve met all of my boyfriend live and then you can see about what height they have. And I’ve never minded if somebody is small or tall.
Sure, and if a girl has mega huge 32h knockers I’m sure she isn’t (that) mad either (except you’re still objectifying the tall/giant tiddie person in a sense, even if that isn’t the intent, and the man is less likely to even catch on to that to be mad about it, but I digress), but asking someone who has been repeatedly made fun of or rejected because they are “short” or “flat” is more likely to yield a different reaction.
Though yes there are also women who don’t care, my first GF was taller than me for instance, just like there’s men who actually prefer smaller boobs, like me, it happens. Though the existence of people like my ex and I doesn’t indicate frequency (as in, though our preferences are as such, it is still entirely possible that most women prefer tall and most men prefer honkers, all we prove is the existence of people who do not fit that paradigm, too, but not in what ratio.)
Usually it’s not part of the date conversation for me because it doesn’t matter if you date an average heigth guy. if a guy is really fucking tall and I’m genuinely interested about how tall he is I have asked, nobody ever minded. I think this whole height fetish is a little bit out if control because of dating apps maybe. Because I’ve met all of my boyfriend live and then you can see about what height they have. And I’ve never minded if somebody is small or tall.
Sure, and if a girl has mega huge 32h knockers I’m sure she isn’t (that) mad either (except you’re still objectifying the tall/giant tiddie person in a sense, even if that isn’t the intent, and the man is less likely to even catch on to that to be mad about it, but I digress), but asking someone who has been repeatedly made fun of or rejected because they are “short” or “flat” is more likely to yield a different reaction.
Though yes there are also women who don’t care, my first GF was taller than me for instance, just like there’s men who actually prefer smaller boobs, like me, it happens. Though the existence of people like my ex and I doesn’t indicate frequency (as in, though our preferences are as such, it is still entirely possible that most women prefer tall and most men prefer honkers, all we prove is the existence of people who do not fit that paradigm, too, but not in what ratio.)