I like how lemm.ee didn’t defederated very many people and maintained a chill vibe in terms of moderation.
What instances have similar vibe?
Edit: I been looking into it and seems that an instance with a similar outlook on federation and not full of power tripping admins censoring is hilariouschaos.com
piefed.social and lemmy.world I like the web gui of piefed but not too keen on the one app that supports it. Maybe voyager.app can implement a way to integrate it.