Have you asked yourself this question? How do you answer today? Does/has your answer change(d)?
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I’ll say it nice and simply: both. I’m a simple pansexual who likes a variety of sexual experiences.
Very cool! 👍
This is me too. I want to be turned on by her, but I want to look at myself in the mirror and see her looking right back at me.
Glad you were able to find you way to happiness <3
I definitely get frustrated on occasion at some of the more extreme Sissy/CD captions/hypno/etc that goes a bit too far away from the idea that someone can want to get fucked and also fuck someone. To each their own though, of course!
Degrading bimbofication gang bang bnwo sissy content is the only valid kind of sissy content /s lol
I’ll go first ☺️ For me, this question is most relevant when I see a woman in real life who I find myself strongly attracted to some of or all of. For a while my answer’s been “unsure” or “both.” But the other day, I saw things a little differently.
Here are the things that most often trigger those strong attractions and questions for me: being feminine in public, dresses, leggings and a nice butt, nail polish, exposed (flat/toned) tummies, nice hair, nice curves. Hearing myself read this list out, it’s seldom the ‘whole girl’ I’m attracted to.
My insight was this: I realized that these things don’t matter too much to me in terms of selecting a long-term partner. I think some level of physical attraction to one’s partner is a good thing. But “yes/no, do I find this person physically attractive” is not the same as that strong level of physical attraction to relatively discrete feminine body parts, clothes, and behaviours I mentioned above. In fact, when it comes to longer-term partners, almost everything that’s important to me is about their character (or what’s between their ears), and these ultra-feminine things are not important.
I think reading the gender dysphoria bible was helpful for me in realizing this, because there’s a section that talks about if you’re raised a boy then you’re most likely taught that every time you look at a girl with interest it is sexual interest. Personally, I was unaware of what a strong hold that learning/ indoctrination had on me until recently.
I think this insight has probably made me a slightly more desirable partner for women. I know I’m attracted to women who are comfortable with their own femininity. But I don’t have any expectation that they conform to any beauty/gender standards they don’t personally see value in.
