• TrackinDaKraken@lemmy.world
    link
    fedilink
    English
    arrow-up
    5
    ·
    edit-2
    1 month ago

    This only works for old women and young men. And, a young man could say it to an old man as a joke.

    Any other way, the only response is “thank you.”

    • Asafum@feddit.nl
      link
      fedilink
      English
      arrow-up
      5
      ·
      1 month ago

      I’ve always felt so uncomfortable about that joke. Like, both of us know you’re old, me saying you’re young almost seems insulting for some reason. I’ve never been able to put my finger on exactly why it makes me uncomfortable, maybe because it’s just that it’s an obvious lie even if it’s meant to be “nice.”

    • toynbee@lemmy.world
      link
      fedilink
      English
      arrow-up
      4
      ·
      1 month ago

      Now that I’m older, people just thank me, but when I was younger people - both men and women, especially older - would say something about how my parents raised me right.

      I didn’t really love that response, but I appreciated the sentiment and it never seemed inappropriate no matter the demographic of the complimenter.

      • earthworm@sh.itjust.works
        link
        fedilink
        English
        arrow-up
        1
        ·
        1 month ago

        Is this pretty privilege?

        The only way I can imagine an old dude with a low charisma stat pulling this off is by giving the compliment while sprinting away at max speed.