Recently, I’ve been becoming more and more interested in trying to find some fun people to become porn buddies with. It just seems very exciting to me to masturbate next to someone, and just be there together.
So I wondered what are you guy’s experience’s watching porn with friends, and if you haven’t done it yet would u be interested in trying it with your friends?
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Fuck that, porn game developers of Lemmy that work in semi large teams, what useally gets discussed in meetings and does anyone giggle when they look at the sprint?
I used to work on summertime saga. It was very bland, you get used to it and don’t see it as sexual anymore.
Um. I would not do that. In my opinion, that’s weird
Fair enough! I think it would also be very uncomfortable with my current friends, but why do you think it’s weird? Would u be against watching porn during sex too?
This is not the kind of thinking you’re looking for in the replies, but my main memory of watching porn with friends was when I was round at a friend’s house - the only guy I knew who had broadband internet - watching porn with him and another guy. The other guy was masturbating (it didn’t feel weird) and he said he likes comparing his own dick to those in porn. He probably said that to make us look more closely at his dick, and we all agreed that he did indeed have a very big dick. I wonder what he’s up to these days.
Watching porn must have been so much different when having internet was considered special. Did you watch it often with them? Or was it more like a one time thing?
I hope he’s doing alright! Maybe he’s some big shot CEO now with that kind of confidence, just whipping his dick out like that infront of you guys xD
I think we would watch porn now and then, but I don’t remember visibly masturbating together - I don’t think we were ever quite comfortable enough to do that unless it was a dark room.
I had a quick search for the guy right now, but can’t seem to find him, so probably not a CEO.
That makes sense, thank you for sharing!
I’m bi, and I sometimes meet strangers to jack off to porn. Most of the time it evolves into blow jobs and mutual masturbation - fun all around. Everyone comes and then they leave satisfied. Really like these meetups.
Would never ever do anything even remotely like this with friends as sex is completely out of the dynamics in this peer group.
That makes sense! Have u ever thought about making a different friend group just for porn? It sounds like you already met a lot of people who would be interested.
Frankly I don’t see the need or a reason for that - one side is friends and family and the likes, and sex and porn is the other side (of my interests and interactions). Why should I mix these concepts? There are some regulars who I meet here and there for sex - but getting closer to them? That would feel more like a relationship than a friendship as far as I’m concerned.
I think we have different concepts of friendships. Not judging, just stating.
You might be right! I’d also rather keep my current friends private from it, and rather find a new group of “friends” to do it with. As you state it, you might be right that calling them friends might be the wrong term. Although I wouldn’t mind hanging out and doing different stuff with the people I watched porn with. The encounters with them wouldn’t always have to be sexual.
What the fuck?
No need to judge… Just leave if you’re not into it
Happened once. Had a friend that lived in the neighbourhood, grew up together basically so we’d seen each other’s junk before plenty of times during the “show me yours, I’ll show mine” phase or just randomly. Anyway, by now we’d message occasionally and at some point confided in each other about crushes and girls we were into. This led to a conversation (still over messaging) where we both admitted to jerking off while thinking of our crushes sometimes, and then from that moment on the ice was broken and we’d occasionally chat about masturbation and porn and what got us off. I’d usually jerk off during those chats and eventually we both admitted to doing so, talking about it and even mentioning when we’d cum.
So then for the one time, the thing you asked about. I was over at his place like usual. And also like usual we were home alone while his parents were at work. We started talking while playing a game and for the first time brought up the topic of porn while actually face-to-face. Talked a little about the specifics of what kind we liked and where we watched it, what sites etc. So I told him to show me some of his favourite videos, and I’d share some of mine. When we we’re watching his video I was hard as a rock inside my pants and just kinda blurted out to him that it was okay if he wanted to jerk off. Just projecting really, hoping I could do it if he did it as well.
Was sort of an awkward game of chicken / “you first, no you first” situation to start, but we both got them out first and focussed back onto the video. At which point we both “sneakily” started stroking. The whole thing stayed quite awkward to be honest. Unlike with messaging, talking about this stuff out loud and face-to-face was a lot more difficult. So there was a lot of awkward silences and unsuccessful attempts at hinting things. Didn’t really last all that long anyway as he got close to cumming he got up and went to the bathroom to finish. I was planning to do the same after he’d come back, but accidentally got myself to close and not wanting to make a mess in his room I finished into my boxers.
I put those boxers back on and zipped my pants up, he got back from the bathroom, I’d closed the porn. We played a bit more of the game we were playing before until I had to go home and we never really acknowledged it happening after.
That actually sounds like one of the most realistic possibilities I’ve read! It must have been really different coming from chat to actually being irl! Did you guys also stop talking about porn (on chat) after that incident, or did everything kind of go back to normal after a while?
P.s. Thanks for sharing!
Yeah, it was a surprise just how different it felt. When it’s just text over chat your imagination fills in a lot of blanks, and of course while you’re masturbating you fill imagine it as the hottest thing to do. Also not having to say any of the things you type out loud helps. When you’re actually in the same room with your dick out it’s so very different.
Chatting about porn and jerking off kind of stopped as well. I actually did bring it up once to ask him about how he’d finished in the bathroom, but it immediately felt like that same awkward vibe about it. So from then on we occasionally still brought up crushes, but our main crushes never really went anywhere at that point and we kind of stopped talking about them too.I think the whole thing was mainly driven by horny curiosity, and after talking about all the details and having done the thing IRL, it was kind of… done? I guess. I did afterwards occasionally fantasise what it’d have been like if I’d reached over and jerked him off. But I’m 99% sure that would’ve taken it too far for him. Since he wasn’t comfortable cumming next to me and stuff.
The only time my friends ever showed each other porn was when we were teens and we found something fucked up like bestiality or scat randomly. Like sending people to shock sites like meatspin or goatse or 2girls1cup, etc.
You’re giving me PTSD. During a school camping trip one of my old friends showed me a vid of a girl putting eels in her vagina… That was so messed up
There’s got to be an app for this.
Edge with Friends
I used to have a buddy who also liked JOI and femdom stuff. Kinda came out drunkenly one night. We started sharing videos and stuff at first and then I asked if he wanted to do them together. We did it about 5-6 times and it was really hot, including touching each other. Eventually he started dating a woman and said he felt guilty continuing. We kinda just lost touch.
That must have been pretty exciting! Sucks that you lost touch, but definitely a good thing that he stopped when he got into a relationship.
This happened with me once. There was me, another girl, and a guy left after a party at the guy’s house. We were all naked from playing strip games at the end of the night. The guy started cleaning up and I went to the bathroom. When I got back the other girl was watching porn on the TV. I sat down next to her before I realized she playing with herself. I started fingering myself while we both commented on the porn. That got the guy’s attention, he sat next to me and started jerking off and commenting on the porn with us.
