I think that is the question we need to answer as humans

Tech among other things has pushed people to be more and more extreme to the point where people are shamed for not being either far left or far right.

Conservative can mean many different things. One can be mostly left with some right leaning beliefs or mostly right with some left leaning beliefs. It isn’t as black and white as the media makes it seem. You should seek out things that make you question your own beliefs.