I’ve seen a lot of, girls and women specifically online, claim they’re “soft-hearted” or “cute and kind” but be extremely racist, anti-even documented immigration, say that other cultures don’t deserve a home, and call trans people “not people”. And more.
Because we judge others by their actions and ourselves by our intent.
I think people are like this by default and it takes work to figure out your own blindspots and correct for them. Some people just never get there.