• DickFiasco@sh.itjust.works
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    2 days ago

    Same. I used to get made fun of for my music taste, sometimes just based on the band name or album art. Developed a habit of hiding my interests from my parents and feeling ashamed when they found anything non-mainstream of mine.

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      2 days ago

      Well I am about just a sad and relieved that I am not the only one who had this experience. Were you able to cope with it & heal ?

      Also care to share a few artists/albums? In exchange i will namedrop bleed the future by archspire

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        1 day ago

        Over time I learned to just own my weird tastes and not care what other people think, but I think that’s just something that comes with age. The music I got made fun of for was actually pretty basic, my dad was just disdainful of anything that wasn’t his music. The name “Racer X” just sounded “gay” to him, and I got shit for the album cover of Soul Asylum’s Grave Dancer’s Union because there’s two naked children on it. To make things right, I never make fun of my own kids for their weird shit, and I try to teach them not to criticize other people over meaningless things either.

        I hope you’ve also been able to heal from your experiences.

        Also, I just discovered Archspire about a year ago and I agree that Bleed the Future is an absolute banger.