• kittenbridgeasteroid@discuss.tchncs.de
    66·
    1 year ago

    Right? Any relationship takes work to maintain, so expecting things to just magically work without putting in any effort is a recipe for disappointment.

    Also, the whole opposites attract thing is kinda bullshit when you look at 40+ year marriages.

    • eestileib@sh.itjust.works
      31·
      1 year ago

      Opposites attract works for sex though. 2 aggressive tops or 2 meek bottoms aren’t gonna have nearly as much fun as one of each.

      • Dharma Curious@startrek.website
        26·
        1 year ago

        Thanks to the local porn store, I have had many an eventful evening with another meek bottom.

        … also my experience, give a meek bottom some kind of hardware and an opportunity, and they turn into nearly violent tops. Lmao

      • captainlezbian@lemmy.world
        9·
        1 year ago

        I think opposites and sames are bad frames to think of sex and relationships. Aggro top and meek bottom are either a recipe for a wonderful night or a terrible one depending on communication and tastes. Likewise I’ve had good sex with fellow bottoms even though it might’ve been better had she been a top. Additionally a generous vers will find no better company than another generous vers. What works best is one’s complement.