• @Rolder@reddthat.com
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    499 months ago

    I’ve always thought of it was you get more conservative as you get wealthier, rather then older. The system as it is now makes it far harder to get wealthy, hence people are staying liberal as they get older.

    • @angrystego@lemmy.world
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      159 months ago

      I think it’s also true for those people who lose the ability to learn and understand new things as they age (which happens a lot but not to everyone). In the everchanging world those people find themselves longing for stability and the good old times that they understand. Change becomes confusing and scary.

      • @lugal@lemmy.ml
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        99 months ago

        Also: Some people keep their positions that used to be progressive and find themselves on the conservative side much later. Example: If you are ok mixed race marriage, that used to be a progressive talking point and now is common sense. Gay marriages weren’t discussed in the slightest back than. If you don’t move, you find yourself on the edge of the Overton window one day.

    • @psud@lemmy.world
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      9 months ago

      I have a paid off house, plenty in the bank, and investments. I’m less convinced by communism than I was as a kid, but I support the progressive agenda, vote green and annoy city planners asking about pedestrian and bike infrastructure in new developments

      I don’t think I could be accused of conservatism, though I seem to have done capitalism reasonably

      Actually maybe I am a conservative - I do want to conserve this biosphere, rather than destroying it through the radical increase in carbon burn in the last few hundred years

      • nickwitha_k (he/him)
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        89 months ago

        Actually maybe I am a conservative - I do want to conserve this biosphere, rather than destroying it through the radical increase in carbon burn in the last few hundred years

        That’s conservationism, not conservatism. Conservatism is about establishing and enforcing hierarchies of social power.

        • @psud@lemmy.world
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          59 months ago

          It was a joke :). I was playing on the dictionary definition of (little C) conservatives, in contrast to (big C) Conservatives

          Modern Conservatives area actually radicals, and they unfairly leave actual conservatives (who want stability or careful change) with no representation

          • @meyotch@slrpnk.net
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            19 months ago

            Then those actual conservatives need to do the hard work and actually rein in their wacko cousins.

    • Cethin
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      59 months ago

      It’s really that the world becomes more liberal as it goes on. If you don’t change with it, you’re comparatively more conservative. It’s never been the case that people, in general, become more conservative as they age, just that they want things how they expected them before, which at some point is reached and surpassed.

    • 🇰 🔵 🇱 🇦 🇳 🇦 🇰 ℹ️
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      39 months ago

      I’ve just seen it as people get set in their ways. You were progressive in your youth, got what you wanted, and have grown comfortable with it. Now, you’re old and the new generation wants to change things you are comfortable with, and you don’t want it to change.

  • Xilly
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    319 months ago

    My parents told me that when I was in college but the absolute opposite has happened. I think it is true for a lot of folks.

    • @tiramichu@lemm.ee
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      The reason older generations tell us that you get conservative when you get older is because that’s what truly did happen for them. It’s their genuine life experience.

      They started off as young liberal hippies with only weed money to their name, and then as they got older and settled down they became wealthier, and surprise surprise, when you have wealth then you start acting and voting in ways which help you keep that wealth for yourself.

      It isn’t happening with younger generations in part because we’re inherently more liberal but also in part because that wealth the older generations saw never appears.

      • @SnipingNinja@slrpnk.net
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        19 months ago

        I mean a system in which you grow rich as you grow older, no matter what (exceptions aside) would do that, and if that’s the expectation you’ll grow more conservative thinking children don’t understand that everyone gets to have a good life “except the bad people” (in this case it can be both a genuine belief or a dog whistle) but if you contrast it to the world we have seen where wealth is hoarded by a select few and at an unprecedented scale you can grow jaded even if you do make wealth somehow unless you buy into the current right wing propaganda.

    • @MotoAsh@lemmy.world
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      239 months ago

      It’s only true for greedy idiots who think their 401k growing is the only way they’ll be a millionaire, so they misguidedly enable wallstreet and big business, tax breaks, etc.

      Bad people grow more conservative over time.

      Normal people either go further left or simply stop progressing, which can appear like growing conservative as the world marches on.

      • SokathHisEyesOpen
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        19 months ago

        You can’t even touch your 401k until a few years before you die, so it would be weird if that was someone’s primary concern.

    • @Feirdro@lemmy.world
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      149 months ago

      Had a Dittohead math teacher tell me, “I’d learn.”

      I had barely begun to understand the importance of the labor movement around the world. Hadn’t yet read Howard Zinn. Thought gay was an insult and that people would reject fascism forever.

      I guess I learned.

      • @jumperalex@lemmy.world
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        129 months ago

        Dittohead

        Well TIL what a Dittohead is hahaha

        51yo Gen X here …

        The thing I don’t get is that I see the logic to the theory of why someone would become economically conservative as they gain wealth, but it doesn’t quite track becoming socially “conservative” as well.

        I’m doing well enough, and of a demographic, that I should fit the curve of becoming more conservative. But in addition to more assets as I’ve grown older, I’ve gained empathy due to personal and observational experiences in my life. Not surprisingly to me, that’s shifted my social politics to the left. Perhaps a little surprisingly, because of my growing sense of empathy, my “keep what I got” emotions are more than counter balanced by my “we need to help others” emotions and so my economic politics are also shifting left.

        • @spacecowboy@sh.itjust.works
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          49 months ago

          There is no conservative movement that isn’t tied to social conservatism. There are not enough true fiscal conservatives anymore because that just doesn’t work in today’s world - so they have to pander to maniacs and evil people to get their votes.

    • @agent_flounder
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      99 months ago

      You’re not alone. I have moved farther left the older I get and the more I learn.

  • AFK BRB Chocolate
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    229 months ago

    I’m an old guy. I think there are a few things that influenced this. For one, there’s a basic kernel of truth in that we tend to be more naive when we’re younger because we lack experience. We’re unrealistic about what’s feasible. Lots of folks also get a bit more jaded as they get older because it’s hard to see the same bad shit over and over and react to it the same way the 100th time as you did the first time. Throw in that folks were generally less politically polarized for the older generations. Conservative vs liberal, for average people, tended to be more about how much money we spend on defense and how much on social programs.

    So a lot of people moving through that landscape did feel that some of their liberalism came from unrealistic idealism. But things are different now. We’re so polarized, and the wedge issues are so fundamental to peoples’ lives. I know, I was personally raised in a relatively conservative household, and I’ve grown more and more into a flaming liberal because I see conservatism as an assault on personal freedoms and on science.

    • @Corkyskog@sh.itjust.works
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      69 months ago

      It used to be a conservation over the coffee table about the merits of taxing less and providing less, versus taxing more and providing more. Now it’s devolved into identity politics and whatever the latest culture war is with opposite side vehemently against whatever culture war of the day is. Conversations rarely get past that point, and I think this has all been done by design.

      • AFK BRB Chocolate
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        59 months ago

        Yeah, I honestly think it goes back to when Republicans decided to specifically court evangelical Christians. As part of that, they painted liberals as not just wrong, but evil. You can negotiate and compromise with someone you think is wrong, but not someone you think is evil. That was the beginning of our politics becoming excessively polarized, in my opinion.

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          Yes, that’s true. It was both the biggest blunder and most optimal strategy that they ever played. It worked out “tremendously” to quote a former president’s favorite words, in the short term. But now their monster is coming out alive. No one expected them to win seats, it was astroturfing afterall… but now here we are.

          • AFK BRB Chocolate
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            39 months ago

            Well, it worked tremendously for decades. They got middle America and the south to vote for conservative politicians to stop liberals from murdering babies and implementing communism or socialism. Meanwhile, those politicians voted in tax cuts for the rich and reduced corporate oversight, which was the real goal. Wonder why average worker salaries have gone up around 14% since the late 70s whole CEO salaries have gone up 1200% in the same period? It goes back to this.

        • @Sterile_Technique@lemmy.world
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          29 months ago

          It’s a product of the two party system and FPTP.

          Then you have actors like Russia who correctly identify it as a weak spot, and therefore dump as much fuel on the fire as they can.

          And profiteers like the church, who keep their cash-cows enraged and engaged by building big blue strawmen.

          It’s not any kind of coordinated effort, just the end result of lots of different flavors of bullshit thrown in the same pile… but there are definitely people who benefit from it.

          And it feels disingenuous to even mention that it can go both ways, but look at things like presidential elections and how many vote not for a candidate based on their merits, but against the other bastard based on how horrible they are.