It’s bold of you to assume that I can handle choices at the food market. I am paralyzed by the prospect of choosing between twelve different kinds of sandwich bread. [/s… mostly]

My issue with picking an instance was less that it was confusing and more that I could tell there was going to be a certain amount of internal culture in any instance I picked, and I didn’t know how to interpret that until I spent some time browsing. Everyone says it doesn’t matter if you follow/participate in your local communities, which is true, but it’s still nice when you can.