If you thought you were a true ally, maybe it’s time for some introspection.

  • cumwaffle [she/her]@hexbear.net
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    5 years ago

    not dating post-op trans women? sure, that’s pretty shitty

    but not dating pre-op/non-op trans women isn’t transphobia, you can’t pick your sexuality

    i hate this struggle session so much

      • cumwaffle [she/her]@hexbear.net
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        5 years ago

        that’s literally what everyone is talking about here in the comments rn

        calling someone transphobic because they don’t want to date someone with genitals they’re not attracted to is idiotic as fuck and makes us look like lunatics, it’s not “preference”, it’s sexuality and it’s fixed

        yes there’s straight men who are still attracted to women if they have a penis but that’s not the case for most