How about the gender of the person posted be declared in the title? In the same way it is in other similar communities like !gonewild

  • Bearigator@lemmy.fmhy.ml
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    1 year ago

    Doesn’t it being “fitgirls” mean we don’t need to confirm the gender? Guys generally wouldn’t be posted here anyways.

    • booba@lemmynsfw.comOP
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      1 year ago

      There was a girl posted with a penis, the rules explicitly permit this.

      The rules state misgendering is an “attack” and bannable. I thought putting gender in the title would help prevent incidents

      • Bearigator@lemmy.fmhy.ml
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        1 year ago

        Trans women would be gendered as F too though.

        Unless we make people mark their gender assigned at birth, which seems both gross and asking for people to purposely come in and make rude comments

        • MuhammadJesusGaySex@lemmy.fmhy.ml
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          This! But also, trans women have taught me that dicks aren’t a deal breaker. Sure, it might not be my first choice, but if she’s hot. Well, you know the old saying.

          If a bear’s hungry. He’ll eat.

            • Jimbob0i0@beehaw.org
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              It’s really not though…

              A trans woman is a woman… it’s that simple.

              Would the OP permit a pre-op trans man to post here just because they are AFAB?

              Is a T required for just pre-op trans women or all trans women?

              Does forcing them to mark themselves out as different encourage isolation and further the difficulties they are going through?

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                Trans woman is not a woman.

                If a trans woman enters the female bathroom as my daughter in my area, I will fight back by any means necessary.

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          1 year ago

          Then indicate sex and gender? Most people have a sexual orientation, I think, even if others have “gender orientation”.

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      1 year ago

      Page 69 of the jerk off contract stipulates that you submit all complaints using the official complaint form, notarized, signed, and dated, sent in triplicate to the appropriate authorities.

      Gawd, It’s like no one reads these things! /s