BigWeed [none/use name]

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Cake day: July 12th, 2025

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  • In situations like this, CPS can actually be a good resource to help her make a change if other options fail. It’s a really tough call to make but know that nobody else may do it and the responsibility can be on you. If the safety of the child is at risk (and it seems like it could be), and she can’t get sober through other means, then it’s the right call to make. They won’t just ‘take custody of the child’ unless the situation is truly dire, and they can get her the help she needs.

    If she’s having bad withdrawals then she should not quit without assistance since it can be deadly. She should enroll in an alcohol use disorder treatment program. There are a lot of treatment programs possible, both inpatient and outpatient. She can start with a family doctor or reach out to a treatment facility directly. You can call the SAMHSA National Helpline if you need help navigating anything.

    I have two situations that are related. One is a friend, his mother had a really bad drinking problem when he was in high school and she refused to get help. His family worked through CPS to help her get treatment. The other is more personal, my sister is currently going through a psychosis where she hears the voice of god and it tells her to do things. She thinks her child is part of some divine plan. She refuses to get any treatment. Practically speaking, I don’t have any power to coerce her into getting treatment. I’m closely monitoring the situation and if I feel like things have gone too far then my plan is to call CPS. Since it will damage the relationship with my sister, I’ve giving her a lot of leeway, but if I ever feel like her child is unsafe then I’m calling immediately.




  • Just re-rack your weights, don’t hog the equipment, and wipe it down after you use it. If you do that then you’re doing better than most people.

    You can stay as long as you need to finish your set. If you feel like you need an excessively long rest, you can re-rack your weights, wipe it down, and come back to it later.

    I actually set timers for my rest time so I can find the best time to keep intensity up and not hit the next set too early.













  • This company has the scariest labor system. There are no managers or product people, everyone is expected to contribute as if they are founders, which is why they have the most insane feature spread. You are constantly fearing for your job and they’ll do shit like send you to mexico for a “hackathon”. They have random rounds of layoffs to trim people who aren’t preforming at the top. They really figured out how to work people to the bone.