

I have noticed that the same rationalists who think Sam Altman is building Skynet are totally fearless about an ex getting access to their home address through an adtech data-broker or a friend at Google. They are sometimes paranoid about reporters getting information, but not as worried about who collects it in the first place.

She could be raising children or organizing local events. If she is disillusioned I would have expected her to reappear somewhere else with a new cause (she explored skepticism, EA, and rationalism, and dropped out of several graduate programs when she decided that the field was not rigorous enough).
I would have hoped she would say something about so many of her friends turning out to be embezzlers and Nazis.