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  • So yeah, there’s resistance everywhere. Ultimately I took a little advice but was going to do what I wanted anyway. I don’t care if movies make vasectomies look less manly. Movies make it seem like a manly endevour is to get laid. If you’re getting a vasectomy it’s because you’re getting laid. Shaming it is dumb.

    Yeah, it’s incredibly stupid but the idea is there. Many men will be worried about it…

    So as I said, it’s not as simple. By the time doctors accept you know what you’re doing you are usually old enough to support family. Vasectomy doesn’t protect 20 year olds from getting someone pregnant by accident.




  • Taking over a post talking about women’s bodies and pregnancy issues

    This is community about twitter, not about women’s issues. I know you don’t like it but we’re still allowed to talk about our experiences here, regardless our gender. No one is “taking over” posts here. We’re just talking.

    to complain that men have it as difficult as women

    No one said this, you’re just making stuff up now. Taking about men’s issues doesn’t invalidate women’s issues. I don’t know what’s the point of silencing men and dismissing their problems. It’s not helping anyone.

    will come off as insensitive and sealioning to some.

    No idea what that is.


  • You got all this from my question? Wow.

    I was just wandering if that’s @riqusimo experience because in my experience and from what I see vasectomy is not an easy fix (pun?) for men. Most of them are still expected to reproduce when time comes. More and more women never want kids but majority still does. Very few men will get a vasectomy before actually forming a family which is after the danger of causing unwanted pregnancy mostly passed. Even older men will be questioned about their motivation and doctors may simply refuse to perform it for younger men that don’t have kids. Not to mention that in some countries vasectomy is simply illegal (Poland). On top of that we have decades of laughing at vasectomies in media and equating it with impotence. For some stupid reason many people still think being infertile means you’re somehow less manly or something - another reason many men will thing about it twice.

    So… not really as simple as riquisimo makes it sound. I wander what’s his experience and why it’s so different than mine.

    But yeah, sorry for offending you with my question…





  • Being a man is like:

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    QUICK GET HER PREGNANT!

    GET HER PREGNANT NOOOOOW!

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  • The naming is confusing here. In Spain the difference between AC and ‘aerotermia’ is that the second one heats water. This is the “heat pump” revolution here. Many people already use AC for heating but they have gas or electric boilers to heat water. Heatpumps are way more efficient here. When you say ‘heatpump’ you mean something that replaces a furnace? Something you plug into central heating system that heats the water and distributes it to the radiators?


  • Fair enough. That’s roughly 350 million people. You said 50% of people in EU live in apartments so what you said applies to about 170 million people. That’s ~1/3 of EU. I would say ~2/3 of people getting AC and/or heatpumps still counts as a revolution. But that’s nitpicking and really besides the point. Some people will not be able to upgrade, sure. Some people will install AC in their apartment and use it for heating during winter as pretty much all units they sell now do both. New buildings may also adapt to the new reality and stop installing building wide heating systems, even in the countries you listed. I think it’s obvious things will change and even if half of Europe will not be affected for now it doesn’t mean some sort of revolution is not happening.