I swear I’m not Jessica

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Cake day: October 30th, 2024

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  • That’s absolutely fucked that people are claiming to know your feelings better than you do (trans reddit has really gone down the toilet in recent years). The only person who can decide if you regret it is you, and your experience making others uncomfortable shouldn’t be your problem. Preferring to have a dick and balls does not make you any less of a woman, as I’ve met cis women who wished they had them and trans women who like their’s.

    As far as how you move forward, I have no direct answers. I really hope you don’t kill yourself and instead seek professional support, because helping with a loss like this is not something us internet peeps are qualified to do. We can only listen, share our own experiences, and affirm your emotions, which might not be everything you need. Since your case isn’t common, I’d look for therapists who work through bodily loss more generally AND are trans supportive, although you never know who you’ll find.