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Maybe the Talk app in nextcloud would be enough? https://nextcloud.com/talk/

Fluxer really looks great. Might be the greatest alternative to discord, made in EU. But fluxer is tired these days. Too much traffic…

Fluxer is an exciting alternative to discord. But can it manage the current momentum and overwhelming traffic ? That will be even more exciting. https://fluxer.app/

I found https://drime.cloud/ a few days ago here on PieFed. Maybe that could be interesting.

Try both, test it yourself. And then try CachyOS as well. I do recommend and use Bazzite and cachyos. Both are great. But it takes time. Like the first time with windows. Its a totally new chapter, if new to linux. Try all 3 for a week. See how it works.