thx ❤️❤️ many of the F/M train swap jokes have not gone to waste!!

glad I wasn’t the only one… Nextcloud is something I always have open so fixing the dashboard really made me feel better

not in this one, but I do have other friend groups that do!! I’ll def post an update…

they must be putting some different stuff in the water near me /j bc unfortunately I already have quite a bit of hair growth in all those places, my voice is deep, and I’m tall :(

I’ve already shaved some parts and that feels nice :3 but the voice thing is bothering me a lot…

yet my mindset has become so much better (!!) with all the support here… with that hair gone… I’m not giving up now, not when it feels this good ❤️

tsym again for the honesty and thoroughness of your responses ❤️ it’s helping me figure out what I need to do and the order I’ll prioritize them

I have a pharmacy nearby that I usually pick up my prescriptions from, but now that you mention the people issue I’ll have to consider that factor. Injections sound doable to me and I’ll take a look at the other options as well. As for having kids, the idea just isn’t for me.

currently looking for a parttime job that’s accessible to me (walk, bike, transit) and I’ll set that as higher priority. I do have some money from an as needed/contract type thing I’m doing but it’s not reliable

yeah working on getting that help seems like a smaller task now comparatively speaking. I’ll try my best.

and yes yes tips are appreciated!! I can say right now is that I don’t resonate at all with the hyperactive struggles, more with the inattentive bits, and especially with the descriptions of executive dysfunction. My mom is also one of those people that repeats the old lie that “everyone has a little bit of ADHD”, but I suspect that’s more ignorance than maliciousness.

I’ve looked into HRT a bit and I’ll continue following your advice, but I’m strongly considering it, especially now that I see there’s some kind of path for it… just being able to see some sort of plan ahead is so so helpful for my mindset, tysm ❤️

planned parenthood near me is a little far but I think it might be transit accessible which I can definitely do. if I ever decide to, what can I expect with a place like that in general? would I have to go pick up prescriptions elsewhere?

I’m planning on talking with two of my close friends but I’m still building some sort of structure for that, I know if I go in blind I’ll end up backing out of it.

I’ve got decent backing for college stuffs and am now really pushing to go in NYC. I already love the area so much, and I know (most of) the people there on the right side of this stuff. I can’t stand the thought of going local and staying where I am now, but there’s that little chance which scares me…

I’m not so sure about helplines… I just can’t see myself talking to someone I don’t even know, much less over a phone/screen, but I guess it’s there if I ever need it.

thx ❤️❤️

thx… I’ve been reading the comments but only now have I gotten some proper time to respond.

I’m in the US EST. my closest friends are the path of least resistance right now, so I’ll try my best and maybe update later…