I’ve been here for awhile and I’m still trying to learn lemmy specific lingo thrown out like tankie and some others

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I’m no expert but look into your state’s primary caregiver help. Sometimes it’s just a tax exemption but idk, may help, if you really had to give up work for long term care of a loved one! Good luck

Yeah, that’s toxic. I certainly couldn’t handle an adult texting me like that. Maybe if it was a one off thing, but if this is normal behavior just find a new friend. The people in our live’s are a choice. No need to live with that drama.