NTA. The person holding the steering wheel controls the car. If you don’t know the way, you should ask. It’s not everyone else’s job to get you to your destination.

Is there something specific you need in SQLite?

NTA. He ended the relationship, you have no obligation to stay with him. It may be wise for you to start handling the legal aspects of this if you haven’t already. Get a lawyer and make some formal custody agreements would be a good start if you haven’t.

Which packing cubes are you using? How big is the extra large? Thanks for the review on this!