that’s better than what my dad did; he gave us computers with default fedora lol. threw me off linux for years.

fedora’s very cool to be fair! but it felt very ugly and “unfashionable” at the time.

nice. avatar beat was my ringtone for ages

I’ve set my phone to have all notifications silent except for ringtones, which I like best :-)

my main ringtone is death grips - system blower (the train sound opening), and meowfey - from the start (a memey cat meow cover of the original) set for my partner.

imo go for it! look up some references of well-written trans characters if it helps, but I think overall writing interesting diverse characters is a net good rather over sticking to your comfort zone. be open to criticism (positive) that can help you develop your character in positive directions as well.

hmm… edible weed panties.

nah, you’re spitting facts 🔥

this kind of thing is funny every time it comes up. there’s nothing wrong with having fitness goals to get shredded, but don’t do it just to get women lol. do it for you!!!

he’s spider jerusalem from the comic transmetropolitan! an edgy journalist guy.

me with white monster

alternative edit: replace the cop car with a tesla

I appreciate the sentiment & I agree. while I’m not trans, but I don’t want to be anywhere where I feel unsafe to be queer and feel unable to experiment with how I express myself. transphobia is obviously a slippery slope and will just further push us out

sorry that many users are such waste disposal units on lemmy 😞 I feel like I can’t do much alone but I concur that our mods should be acting against harassing you for your identity. the unpredictable nature of getting weird bigoted replies to just regular nice people makes me anxious about posting much - like I never know what to expect. I’m hoping a better community can grow here.

having guy friends who act normal are great when it happens! I have a couple at least.

so cute 💜 I like no. 1

you gotta go out of your way to be a force for good when things feel grim

the kink community is so cool and interesting with things like this! thanks for sharing

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noooooo 😭

oh hi !!!

agh idk dog… the comment sections of lemmy.world are a bit of a cesspool. I’ll miss the pro-trans good vibes