• @Digital_man
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    246 days ago

    We are so quick to tell someone how to be, instead of just fucking listening to them.

    • @OlPatchy2Eyes@slrpnk.net
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      186 days ago

      Because the idea that your success and well-being might in some part be down to luck is too big a pill to swallow for some people. Folks love to flaunt success despite the disadvantages they faced, but are so quick to reject that they had any advantages. In this case maybe not everyone wants to be just like you (not you you but them you lol). Maybe they don’t want your friends and your lifestyle, or somehow don’t have as much access to those, but they still want a halfway decent support system.