I don’t know how else to take what you’re saying. It’s like that Simpsons meme “We’ve tried nothing, and we’re all out of ideas!”. This kind of handwringing about the ‘complexity’ of the issue only benefits Israel in it’s ongoing genocide of Palestinians. Yes, a lot of people that neighbor Israel hate it for very fucking good reasons, and it will take a lot of sacrifices from Israelis to build any sort of good will with their neighbors. This is unavoidable.