• Xariphon
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    5511 months ago

    My wife and I were talking about this and it made me wonder if anybody even actually gives a crap about furries at all, or if hating them is just an internet meme and nobody actually cares IRL.

    • @Idreamofcheesy@lemmy.world
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      3511 months ago

      I cringe when I see fursuits or people making their lives about their fursona, but it’s their lives and no one should hate them for it.

      • PugJesusOP
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        1011 months ago

        Yeah, for me it’s like people who go ALL in on collecting kitsch. Is it a bit cringe? Sure. Is it hurting anyone? No, there’s nothing inherently wrong with it. And if you have the guts to stand up and show it proudly, man, more power to you.

      • @yuriy@lemmy.world
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        411 months ago

        from what i’ve heard talking to other furries, “embracing the cringe” is a somewhat common part of the fandom for a lot of us. “furry hate” is just an evolved form of school kids making fun of eachother for liking different things.

        there’s just something so freeing about saying “yeah i pretend to be a dog on the internet for fun”, especially when you just know it’s gonna make someone somewhere SO MAD for literally no worthwhile reason.

        • FaceDeer
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          311 months ago

          As a deer with a human face I assure you that I have no idea what you’re talking about.

          Uwu, and such.

      • @mnemonicmonkeys@sh.itjust.works
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        10 months ago

        Personally, I see it similar to wearing BSDM gear or those cropped hentai shirts in public. Are you free to do it? Yes, but I’m also going to judge you for it

    • @RGB3x3@lemmy.world
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      2211 months ago

      Nobody actually cares. Well, some people do, but they tend to be the ones that hate themselves and everyone else so their opinions don’t matter.

      The furry community is just one of those things that is weird enough to merit laughter and common enough to become a meme.

      But people should be allowed to live their lives without hindrance, so I support em.

    • 𝙣𝙪𝙠𝙚
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      11 months ago

      I give a crap in that they’re people and should be treated respectfully like you’d treat anyone. Other than that as long as no one’s getting hurt I really don’t bother myself with dictating how others should live their lives. Life’s short, do what makes you happy.

      • @JohnDClay@sh.itjust.works
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        411 months ago

        I get that for most people it’s not sexual. But for the people who is is, it’s pretty weird/uncomfortable to wear your fetish gear in public.

        • JackbyDev
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          511 months ago

          There’s all sorts of things that the majority of folks don’t sexualize that some people do. Are you going to get upset about someone wearing knee high socks in public just because it is a fetish for some people?

          • @Caculon@lemmy.world
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            311 months ago

            I think its worth noting that this could be happening right now. Anyone wearing sandels might be subject to someone finding their feet attractive! The horror! :) As a side note, lots of people wear clothing that’s revealing but most of us aren’t up in arms because someone is revealing part of their cleavage. I’m specificlly refering to people wearing pants down around their bum. With there ass cleavage hanging out :)

          • @JohnDClay@sh.itjust.works
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            111 months ago

            I would think it’s weird for the people who fetishize knee high socks to wear them in public. So I don’t think it’s necessary bad for anyone to wear furry stuff, but it is if they get off to it.

            • JackbyDev
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              311 months ago

              What makes you think someone who has a knee high sock fetish is incapable of wearing knee high socks without getting off to it in public?

              • @JohnDClay@sh.itjust.works
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                111 months ago

                I don’t think they’re incapable, just impolite. Like I’m sure someone could wear a butt plug out and about without feeling stimulated. But I think it’d still be impolite. Maybe the best comparison I can think of would be maid outfits. I don’t think it’d be good to wear them out and about if you have a fetish for them, even if you aren’t aroused at the moment.

    • @lauha
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      711 months ago

      It’s definitely one of those internet’s stupid “hate for the lulz” things