Federated services have always had privacy issues but I expected Lemmy would have the fewest, but it’s visibly worse for privacy than even Reddit.
- Deleted comments remain on the server but hidden to non-admins, the username remains visible
- Deleted account usernames remain visible too
- Anything remains visible on federated servers!
- When you delete your account, media does not get deleted on any server
Opposite to Instagram or Facebook, on Lemmy or Mastodon you can create an anonymous account. Yes it will be logged (normal public internet), but you won’t be treacable. The UI doesn’t have any tracking scripts, and many instances don’t require an email even to sign up. Use the Tor browser to spoof your IP.
There are certainly ways to manage your privacy in how you use this service, and it’s different in a lot of ways from other services out there. Users should be educated on the risks against different types of threat models:
Even with end to end encryption (which Lemmy does not have for DMs), the most secure protocol is only as secure as the other end you don’t control. People can and will screenshot, save, log, or simply remember what you’ve sent them before.
Lemmy and ActivityPub are new services and protocols to a lot of people. The shortcuts they have internalized on what is or isn’t true about privacy of other services (Facebook, Instagram, TikTok, Snapchat, Reddit, plain old email, cell phones, WhatsApp, iMessage/Facetime, etc.) need to be re-learned for these specific services.
New users should understand that the Lemmy/ActivityPub protocols on deletion or privacy of DMs don’t necessarily work like other services they’re used to. And we should encourage robust discussion around these things until they become common knowledge.