• Pons_Aelius
    link
    fedilink
    85
    edit-2
    9 months ago

    I hope you are an adult and no longer live with your parents.

    If that is the case remember this. If you cannot have pleasant encounters with him, you are under no obligation to have them at all.

          • Pons_Aelius
            link
            fedilink
            30
            edit-2
            9 months ago

            You sound like you have a good relationship with your parents, many don’t.

            You can be there for them when they need you without putting up with the anti-vax ravings you mentioned. It is called setting boundaries.

            You do what you think is right but also understand that is not a universal thing for all people.

            • @i_have_no_enemies@lemmy.worldOP
              link
              fedilink
              English
              149 months ago

              You sound like you have a good relationship with your parents

              not really.

              i think it is best to minimize contact but not keep null, since these kind of people are self destructive.

              that’s the only reason i stayed , for their health issues.

              • @mild_deviation@programming.dev
                link
                fedilink
                English
                229 months ago

                What about your health? Your mental health in particular.

                Your parents raising you is not something you owe them for. You didn’t choose to exist; they chose that for you. Raising you is the bare minimum they can do after making a choice like that. And now that you are older, you can reflect on the manner in which you were raised and decide what your relationship with them needs to look like so you can keep your sanity.

      • @Mac@mander.xyz
        link
        fedilink
        English
        1
        edit-2
        8 months ago

        The “them” in that sentence refers to “encounters” not “parents”.