• Riskable@programming.dev
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      2 years ago

      Bipolar isn’t so bad: If you’re down or manic just be patient and you’ll be back to awesome again 👍. It’s the promise you must keep to yourself and the older you get the better you’ll get at it.

      Schizoaffective disorder means that no one has power over you but you. Seriously, other much more sensitive people could off themselves because of something someone said but not you. Your emotional barrier is tough AF. You’re incredibly difficult to scam and a social engineer’s worst nightmare. You don’t fall for emotional trickery.

      • Sombyr
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        2 years ago

        As somebody with schizoaffective, I don’t understand where you’re coming from saying it means I’m the only one with power over myself. In fact, I’ve found even after being well medicated I’m incredibly easy to manipulate. All you have to do is tell me somebody’s trying to control me and instantly I’ve spun a 2000 foot deep web about how they’re doing it. Then you just tell me you have the solution and suddenly I’m eating out of your hand.

        And my emotional barrier is paper thin. I only look unaffected by things. In reality if I’m the slightest bit scared or upset, I’m breaking down inside and spinning another web to fill in the cracks. My whole existence is built on delusions and lies I’ve built up to keep myself together, such that even now that I’m in a place where I theoretically could start breaking them down and rebuilding properly, I won’t, because I’d fall apart, and I can’t handle that.

        I’ve decided to just be happy being fucked up. Not because that’s right, but because that’s the only thing I can survive.

        • Riskable@programming.dev
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          2 years ago

          I’m incredibly easy to manipulate

          Then let me manipulate you into being happy 👍

          Dark Voodoo Intensifies

          • Sombyr
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            2 years ago

            I like your positivity.

            Luckily, I am happy most of the time nowadays, just, y’know, in spite of my disorder.

    • Call me Lenny/Leni@lemm.ee
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      2 years ago

      I understand bipolar disorder (though as an observer). Emotional lag is the worst kind of lag.

      I’m not sure how much of schizoaffective disorder I understand, but a friend of mine has it and know some of their experience.

    • OmgItBurns@discuss.online
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      2 years ago

      A close friend of my deals with schizoaffrctive disorder. One of the greatest guys I know, but it definitely has a huge impact on his life.

    • 🐈🐈🐈@lemm.ee
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      2 years ago

      High five! Schizoaffective, type 2 bipolar. And some BPD sprinkled on top. Recently I got some changes in my meds and I finally got days when I’m mostly emotionally stable. Is this how people feel? Made me cry. I wish the best for you.