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minus-square@Jay@sh.itjust.workslinkfedilink64•7 months agoWhen I was a student, a friend texted me one evening: “Tequila. Name of our usual bar. Now.” I replied “OK” and was there 20 minutes later. She was a little surprised, but learned exactly the lesson of this post that evening.
minus-square@LemmyPlay@lemmings.worldlinkfedilink1•7 months agoProximity really makes friendships better, and at least easier. Some of the best memories are made on a whim. And even with the busiest people you can have a better chance of seeing them with a spontaneous text versus a long-term plan.
When I was a student, a friend texted me one evening:
“Tequila. Name of our usual bar. Now.”
I replied “OK” and was there 20 minutes later. She was a little surprised, but learned exactly the lesson of this post that evening.
Proximity really makes friendships better, and at least easier. Some of the best memories are made on a whim. And even with the busiest people you can have a better chance of seeing them with a spontaneous text versus a long-term plan.