• @taladar@sh.itjust.works
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    1007 months ago

    Not talking all the time when spending time together. Being able to just quietly enjoy each other’s company sometimes is actually a good thing since it allows both partners to relax without constantly worrying about keeping their partner’s attention or keeping them entertained.

    • schmorp
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      507 months ago

      Currently sitting next to silent bf silently. We just grunt at each other for days in a row. Live with someone wanting constant interaction = hell.

      • @bfg9k@lemmy.world
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        457 months ago

        My wife and I have a whole system:

        • one grunt = I love you / thanks
        • two grunts = I want attention and love
        • one long grunt = I am in whine mode and want to talk about it
        • two short grunts = I want to fuck you
        • three short grunts = I’m hungry and want snacks