Did the furry fandom helps you discover your gender? Did it help you feel more welcome?

For me personally, being a furry helps me to cope with dysphoria for years before my egg cracked. I used to imagine that I’m an anthro animal all the time to cope with dysphoria before I even knew what dysphoria was.

And aside from a few trans communities (like r/egg_irl), the furry fandom also exposes myself to queer people and queer media in general, which in retrospect might help me sympathize with them more instead of hating it like what most people do.

I’m so glad that this community is very accepting towards people of all sexualities and gender. Being trans in this fandom generally feels pretty safe, at least safer than most other fandoms. Thank you so much.

  • phantomkitty@pawb.social
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    1 year ago

    For me, being furry and being trans were two different, separate things at first. As I discovered my inability to tolerate make-up, the ability to wear a fursuit head become really important for my gender presentation.

    I tried to do Animegao kigurumi at first, but it was not for me, I did not want to be an anime girl. Although some tricks I learned from it are helping me with body shaping for my furry presentation since I do partials instead of full suits.

    So in the end, being furry and being trans are separate for me, but being furry is helping me present better as trans.

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    1 year ago

    I’m actually transspecies, instead of gender – and being a wolf does affect my gender, too. I’m male in a wolf way, not in a human way. 🐺

    [feral here!]

    – Frost

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      1 year ago

      I can relate. I often feel the same way about me being transspecies, but I’m more of an anthro than a feral.