• Lvxferre@mander.xyz
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    9 months ago

    You made me notice that my comment is missing a key element: sealioning always includes a farce of a polite engagement. “Nooo, I don’t want you to shut the fuck up, I just want you to reconsider your position. I’m being friendly, why are you [being rude|ignoring it]?”

    That farce is simply not there on the way that you described that you do against people saying bigoted shit.

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      The underlying assumption on your part being that no one could genuinely want you to reconsider your position, or indeed that your position could be even slightly flawed. Think about what you’re saying, “Sealioning is when people politely ask me questions to clarify a position that I took”. So?

      Not only are you not open to changing your position, you are offended by the very notion that even a small aspect of your position could ever be reconsidered. Incredible. I’m trying not to be too polite, otherwise you might claim that I’m sealioning you again 😂

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        Sealioning is when people politely ask me questions to clarify a position that I took

        This is it. The term “sealioning” seems purpose-built to enable people to escape situations where they are asked to demonstrate critical thinking.

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        As I told you in the other thread: if you want a meaningful reply, drop off the sealioning.

        And yes, you’re still sealioning, even if your façade of politeness dropped.

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          Your definition of sealioning, that it’s defined by intention, that it involves a mask, these are all non-falsifiable. You realize that right? They contain no mechanism for accepting new information from outside your ideology, and make your mind starve to death.

          This overall approach to things — to operate on the basis that all is known and understood and that those who disagree or behave as if there might be incompleteness in the knowledge — is what the term “totalitarian” refers to.

          A classic example of “totalitarian” thinking is if you solve a game like tic-tac-toe. Having a game 100% solved, ie having computed every move, and therefore having 100% certainty as to the optimal play strategy, is a situation where you’ve encapsulated the totality of the game in your mind.

          The idea that the totality of existence, of real life situations, is already known and the optimal strategy already computed, is “totalitarian”.

          A totalitarian dictatorship is one in which that totality of understanding, and the resulting certainty of optimal strategy, is used to justify stripping subjects of all freedom. Any deviation from the optimal is considered bad, so freedom is worthless.

          And of course there are degrees of totalitarianism, expressed implicitly in aspects of culture.

          Science, by its emphasis on putting empirical observation above theory in terms of trust, allows for external information to update itself. Science is not totalitarian in that sense.

          The term “Sealioning”, by enabling people to decide that any interaction at any time possesses a particular intention (un-observable, non-falsifiable), or that a particular mask is being used (un-observable, non-falsifiable), that they can just ignore the interaction and cast aspersions on the person they’re interacting with.

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            Here are two hypothetical situations that might clarify your blatant confusion regarding the usage of the word “sealion”, and exemplify the usage of behaviour instead of “intentions” to demarcate sealioning.

            Situation A:

            • [You] Damn, a glass of water after work is great.
            • [Alice] You’re drinking water. Water is poisonous.
            • [You] No, it is not. Stop making stuff up.
            • [Alice] Okay, but don’t whine afterwards when you get poisoned.
            • [Alice leaves]
            • [a day passes by]
            • [You] I was drinking water yesterday, and it was great.

            Situation B:

            • [You] Damn, a glass of water after work is great.
            • [Bob] You’re drinking water. I’ll have you know that water is poisonous.
            • [You] No, it is not. Stop making stuff up.
            • [Bob] Why are you so aggressive? I’m just informing you.
            • [You] No, water is not poisonous. Water is safe. It’s good for you. Please stop wasting my time.
            • [Bob] Do you have any evidence to back up your claim that water is safe?
            • [You] I’m busy drinking my water. Can you excuse me?
            • [Bob] I shall return later.
            • [a day passes by]
            • [You] I was drinking water yesterd…
            • [Bob] I see that you’re mentioning that poisonous substance again. I don’t understand, why someone would harm themselves? I’m so confused…
            • [You] Bob, fuck off.
            • [Bob] Apparently you lack arguments to defend your outrageous claim that water is safe to drink. Such lack of rationality, I’m just trying to have a friendly conversation and inform you on the risks of the substance that you’re ingesting.

            Even if both Alice and Bob are conveying the same stupid discourse (“water is poisonous”), only one of them is sealioning - Bob. Why?

            [Feel free to analyse this through mind/intention/etc. or behaviour. Refer to the sealion comic for reference.]

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            [EDIT reason: clipping and rewording for less verbosity.]

            TL;DR: sealioning is about either how or why you convey a discourse, not the discourse itself. Over your whole comment, you’re treating it as the later, thus making a fool of yourself and wasting my time.

            Your definition of sealioning, that it’s defined by intention […] these are all non-falsifiable. You realize that right?

            No shit Sherlock. Otherwise I wouldn’t have myself said that “That’s a problem because nobody knows the others’ intentions - at most we lie that we know.”

            However, the concept is still useful once you rework it to rely on behaviour (that is observable and falsifiable). And effectively, that’s what people should do; alongside weighting out some risk that their claim might be wrong.

            mask

            I said “farce”, not “mask”. That said: farces are mostly behaviour, and your point regarding “mask” is secondary and moot.

            They contain no mechanism for accepting new information from outside your ideology

            That’s like complaining against an orange tree for containing no mechanism to squeeze juice.

            Sealioning is not the discourse itself being conveyed, but how [if based on behaviour] or why [if based on intentions]; mechanisms regarding acceptance or rejection of new info relate to the later, not to the former.

            Regarding “ideology”: sealioning is not just used with ideological discourses.

            and make your mind starve to death.

            You’re opposing the concept of sealioning based on its reliance on something non-falsifiable, like “intentions”… and its effect on something equally non-falsifiable, someone’s “mind”. Congratulations for shooting your own foot.

            This overall approach to things — to operate on the basis that all is known and understood

            You’re babbling yet another assumption. That is false, usage of the concept of sealioning does not imply or require such approach. Stop assuming = making shit up.

            All your babble (yup) from the 2nd to 5th paragraphs is built under the assumption that this idiotic statement is true, so I can safely skip to the part where you’re talking about science.

            Science, by its emphasis on putting empirical observation above theory in terms of trust, allows for external information to update itself. Science is not totalitarian in that sense.

            Already addressed: sealioning being how or why a discourse is being conveyed, not the discourse itself.

            Side note: let us not pretend (or worse, assume) that falsificationism is not the only scientific method out there.

            The term “Sealioning”, by enabling people to decide that any interaction at any time possesses a particular intention (un-observable, non-falsifiable), or that a particular mask is being used (un-observable, non-falsifiable), that they can just ignore the interaction and cast aspersions on the person they’re interacting with.

            Besides being a fallacy / irrationality known as “appeal to consequences”, this chunk of babble relies on things already contradicted.


            From your other comment:

            If every time you make a claim, someone pops up and asks you for a source and you can’t provide it, you should stop.

            I’m going to require you a source on that. Over and over and over and over and over, ad nauseam. If you can’t provide it, follow your own advice and shut up. /s

            If you can provide it, don’t worry - I’ll ask for source on something else, preferably some triviality, and the cycle repeats. Recursively.

            Are you getting the picture? Your comment works under the assumption/idiocy that people not sourcing their claims do it because of inability to do so; sealioning exploits the fact that countering bullshit wastes your time and patience, so even if you can rebuke it, you’ll eventually give up out of sheer annoyance.

            And before you babble “but in syense lol lmao” - even in an academic environment, if you’re dragging discussion down by asking questions that you’re expected to know the answer of, someone is bound to “politely” tell you to “please inform yourself beforehand on those trivial matters, if you want to engage in this discussion” aka “fuck off”.

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              I’ll be blunt: the fact that you and @intensely_human@lemm.ee

              • “coincidentally” hit the same month-old thread, one 3h after another
              • with “coincidentally” similar writing styles
              • “coincidentally” having the same view on the topic at hand

              makes me a bit suspicious that you’re the same person agreeing with themself.

              If you are not the same person I apologise. But even then you can see how fishy it is.

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                tell me which of my comments are 200 words with correct capitalization.

                you are paranoid

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                  If I were to be paranoid I’d be claiming that you’re coming “after me”. I don’t - my hypothesis is simply that it’s a single muppet trying to reinforce the standing of their own opinion, based on the coincidences that I’ve listed.

                  And, again: if you are indeed two different individuals, I apologise. The differences in capitalisation and text length are a fair point.

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          If I’m sealioning, you’re walrusing. Which one of us is refusing to address the content of the discussion? It’s now twice that you’ve done to me exactly what you claim that I’m doing to you. There was also a third time you didn’t respond at all, which is actually preferable to your current walrusing. Btw walrusing is when you make an argument, and then claim that any response is in bad faith, thus bypassing your obligation to actually clarify or defend your position in any way.

          You immediately claimed that I was sealioning after I made one single comment? That doesn’t make any sense and you know it.

          Respond to the person you are interacting with, not to your own personal insecurities. Read the words that I have written down, parse them, and compose a response.

          Actually, it’s fine, I’m not particularly curious about the content of your earlier comment anymore, because I no longer have any suspicion that it might have been anything of value. But you should still reflect on what I have told you because it’s pretty silly to act like this, especially on Lemmy.